Most people easily associate war with that of a soldier. How brave soldiers are, how noble it is for them to offer their lives for the service of their country, how touching and heartwarming their stories are, of their loss and their survival.
However, there is more to a war than just the heroes. There are also the villains. Although, one side always claims that the other side is the villain. Simply put, terrorists believe they are the ones wronged, while government and its soldiers believe that wars are provoked by terrorist. No one can ever win this debate, because two opposing parties amidst a war, will fight for what they believe is right, regardless of how far the damage would be.
Of course, there is a third view point to the story. Everyone should start realizing that wars are not just about a match between two powers, it is also about the victims – the innocent children whose houses were destroyed because of a bombing, the mother’s who risk their lives to try and save their young ones, the farmers, the teachers, the people who want nothing to do with war, but are caught up in it anyways, because people of power forgot they mattered, or are so blinded into thinking they are waging war for them, when in fact the war is only hurting and killing them.
A lot of philosophies and opinions on war will surface, and not one will be declared the most rightful reason to start a war, but these things happen, and they are there to stay if people do not back down.
I am one of those victims, and while it was one of my most traumatic experiences, it also helped me help myself. How? Because it made me realize that my life could end anytime, anywhere. Hence, I should not leave room for regrets and I should do whatever it takes to enjoy the life I have.
After surviving a time of crisis that was brought about by war, I relived my life. In my new life, I feel like a new person. I changed my views on life, I changed perspective, heck, I even changed lifestyle and eating habits.
Right now, I may be far from any war, but my fear has never left me ever since. The fear of death makes you want to live life longer, that is why I have changed myself completely. Before, I eat what I can and drink beer and get drunk, abuse myself and my body, thinking that I won’t die anytime soon anyways. But now, I keep a caveman diet shopping list in order to make sure I only buy healthy and organic foods that a Paleo diet suggests. I have changed lifestyle completely, because I have been in the brink of death, and I don’t want that anymore.
While war may happen and people may die even when they live a good life, it is still different because at least, you can say, that while you live, you have given your best to live the good life, and not waste life on things that could only hurt you and make you regret.